mutual aid for a lesbian of color during pride month
i litcherally hate making these kinds of posts but i am at my wits end with trying to get approved for contract jobs that i can actually work. i am currently disabled and had to leave my last job that i loved more than anything on this earth because i could not physically do the work.
consider these things that can and will help a brown/black lesbian couple during pride:
purchase pride stickers directly from my shop! and other stickers too!!
consider an art commission. fandom, dnd, ships, nsfw, ocs, etc!
my patreon where i send monthly stickers to my supporters, with higher tiers that include monthly commissions! you can also have access to a discount code for my sticker shop.
my ko-fi for tips or whatever if you like my art or my writing.
and if you are also struggling and have nothing to give— i love you, i see you, and reblogging this post and spreading it is just as helpful.
You will find your place in this world, even if it might take a while. Even if it might feel like a journey that takes too long. Even if you feel like you don't belong and never will, you will find your place.
In honor of my debut as a musician, here is a lil photo shoot I did
Hey look at me! I’ve got a song out go listen to it maybe
A comic about the spectrum of responses to stress - we talk alot about the more extreme ends of this and trauma, but the more subtle and every day responses can be harder to spot. if we can understand our own and other’s responses better, problems Are easier to confront and blaming is less likely to happen :) hope it’s helpful!!
She also does some counseling work for Black folk
https://supernovamomma.com/positive-discipline-workshop/
If want you to live in a world without police (abolition) you can start here; start utilizing local resources more and start investing in them.
THINGS THAT CAN BE TRUE AT THE SAME TIME:
* Your parents did the best they could, AND their choices wounded you.
* You love someone AND you know it’s not healthy to keep them in your life.
* You’re terrified to take the next step AND you know it’s the right thing to do.
* You want to have healthy relationships AND unresolved trauma is making it difficult.
* You’re afraid to fail AND you believe in yourself.
@drheidigreen